Dating coupling and mate selection
“Being black on the dating market—particularly being a black female— means that one’s invitations are most likely to be ignored.
The only group that responds regularly to black men and women are one another.” Their findings indicate that racial preferences are stronger when daters initiate outreach than when they are responding to others’ advances.
Ida Harding migrated to Australia from Ghana at the age of four.
Intercourse without signs of ovulation become nonexistent and little attention is paid to the level of chemical attraction that brought the two of them together.
John and Edelisa met on a dating site called Filipino Cupid.
After three months of chatting online, John proposed to Edelisa – before they'd met in person.
199Extramarital Sexuality 199Postmarital Sexuality 202Sexuality and Aging 202Sexual Dysfunctions 204Sexual Responsibility: Protecting Yourself from AIDS and Other STDS 206AIDS 206Supporting Marriages and Families 212Summary 212Key Terms 213Questions for Study and Reflection 213Additional Resources 213Living Single, Living with Others: Nonmarital Lifestyles 215Historical Perspectives 217Singlehood in Early America 217Singlehood in the Nineteenth and Early Twentieth Centuries 218Singlehood Today: Current Demographic Trends 219Demystifying Singlehood 220Individual Decision Making 220The Influence of Social and Economic Forces 220Types of Singles 221Advantages and Disadvantages of Singlehood 221Single Lifestyles 223Income 224Support Networks 225Happiness and Life Satisfaction 225The Never-Married in Later Life 226Heterosexual Cohabitation 227Historical Perspectives 227The Meaning of Cohabitation Today 228Reasons for Cohabitation 229Advantages and Disadvantages of Cohabitation 231Cohabitation and the Division of Labor 231Cohabitation and Marital Stability 232Cohabitation and the Law 232Lesbian and Gay Relationships 234Methodological Issues 234Demystifying Lesbian and Gay Relationships 234Living Together: Domestic Tasks, Finances, and Decision Making 235The Social and Legal Context of Lesbian and Gay Relationships 236Elderly Lesbians and Gays 237Communal Living and Group Marriage 237Advantages and Disadvantages of the Communal Lifestyle 237Communes, Shared Housing, and the Future 238Group Marriages 239Supporting Nonmarried Adults 239Summary 240Key Terms 240Questions for Study and Reflection 240Additional Resources 240The Marriage Experience 242Why Do People Marry?
100Lee's Six Styles of Loving 101Love Versus Friendship, Infatuation, and Liking 102Close Friendship Versus Love 102Infatuation Versus Love 104Liking Versus Love 104Some Theories of Love 105The Wheel Theory of Love 105The Theory of Love as a Story 107Love Stories 107Love as a Social Exchange 108Love as Limerence 108Love Across Gender, Sexuality, and Race 110Gender Differences in Love Relationships 110Lesbian and Gay Love Relationships 111Female-Male Relationships Across Race and Ethnicity 112Obstacles to Love and Loving Relationships 115Demographic Factors and Social and Cultural Change 115Traditional Gender Role Socialization 116Patriarchy as an Obstacle to Lesbian Love 116Lack of Trust 117Jealousy and Envy 117Romantic Love Today 120Supporting Marriages and Families 120Summary 121Key Terms 122Questions for Study and Reflection 122Additional Resources 123Dating, Coupling, and Mate Selection 125Mate Selection in Cross-Cultural and Historical Perspective 127Mate Selection Cross-Culturally 127Mate Selection in the United States: A Historical Perspective 129Dating Among Later-Life Adults 132Functions of Dating: Past and Present 133The Intersections of Race, Gender, Class, and Sexual Orientation 135Dating Patterns Among African Americans 135The Impact of Gender 137The Impact of Social Class on the Dating Process 138Lesbian and Gay Dating 139Theories of Mate Selection 141Exchange Theories 141Filter Theories 142Mate Selection: Finding and Meeting Partners 142The Marriage Market and the Pool of Eligibles 143Freedom Versus Constraint in Mate Selection 144Other Factors that Affect Mate Selection 150Personal Qualities and Mate Selection 150Meeting Partners: Where and How 151School, Church, and Work 151Singles' Bars and Gay Bars 153Self-Advertising: Personal Ads 153Dating Clubs and Dating Services 154Computer Dating and the Internet 154Dating in Cyberspace 155The Future of Dating 157Violence in Dating and Intimate Relationships 158Physical Abuse 158Date and Acquaintance Rape 159Breaking up 162Supporting Marriages and Families 162Summary 164Key Terms 164Questions for Study and Reflection 164Additional Resources 165Sexuality and Intimate Relationships 166Human Sexuality: Past and Present 169Jewish Traditions and Human Sexuality 170Christian Traditions and Human Sexuality 170Sexuality in the United States: An Overview 170Sexual Attitudes and Behavior in the Twentieth Century and Beyond 172Sexuality as Social Learning 179Sources of Sexual Learning 181Sexual Orientations 188Heterosexuality 188Homosexuality 189Bisexuality 191Human Sexual Expression 191Sexual Response 191Autoeroticism 191Interpersonal Sexual Behavior 193Sexual Expression Among Lesbians and Gays 194Sexuality Across the Life Cycle 195Nonmarried Sexuality and Pregnancy 195Marital Sexuality: Does Good Sex Make Good Marriages?
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Taking an historical, cross-cultural, and global approach, this book focuses on the link between social structure and the everyday lives of people's diverse experiences of marriages, families, and intimate relationships. 245Sociological Perspective 246The Meaning of Marriage 247Marriage as a Commitment 247Marriage as a Sacrament 247Marriage as a Legal Contract 250Some Legal Aspects of the Marriage Contract 251Change and Continuity in the Meaning of Marriage 255Provisions of the Modern Marriage Contract 255The Marriage Contract Today 256Marriage Traditions in the United States 257The Wedding 262Marriage and Gender 265"Her" Marriage 265"His" Marriage 265Transitions and Adjustments to Marriages 266A Typology of Marital Relationships 266Heterogamous Marriages 267Interracial Marriages 267Interethnic Marriages 273Interfaith Marriages 274Marital Satisfaction, Communication, and Conflict Resolution 275Successful Marriage 275Effective Communication 276Self-Disclosure 278Conflict and Conflict Resolution 278Supporting Marriages and Families 279Summary 280Key Terms 282Questions for Study and Reflection 283Additional Resources 284Reproduction and Parenting 285Historical Overview: Fertility Trends in the United States 287Current Fertility Patterns 288To Parent or Not 289The Costs of Parenthood 289The Benefits of Parenthood 289The Social Pressures to Procreate 290The Child-Free Option 290Delayed Parenting 291Controlling Fertility 292Contraceptive Use 292Reasons for Not Using Contraceptives 293Abortion 293Historical Perspectives 294Race, Class, and Age 295Public Attitudes toward Abortion 296Infertility 296Causes of Infertility 296Consequences of Infertility 297Medical Treatments and Reproductive Technology: Implications for the Meaning of Parenthood 297Artificial Insemination 297Assisted Reproductive Technology (ART) 298The Choice to Parent 299Conception 300Multiple Conception and Births 300Sex Preference and Selection 301Pregnancy 302Prenatal Development and Care 302Prenatal Problems and Defects 303Expectant Fathers 306The Cultural Double Bind 306Parental Adjustments, Adaptations, and Patterns of Child Rearing 307Parental Roles 308Gender Differences in the Experience of Parenthood 311Styles of Parenting 312Race and Class 314Lesbian and Gay Parents 320Single Parents 321Teenaged Parents 324Supporting Parents and Children 326Summary 327Key Terms 327Questions for Study and Reflection 328Additional Resources 328Evolving Work and Family Structures 329The Work-Family Connection 331The Transformation of Work and Family Roles 333Variations by Race, Gender, and Marital Status 334Reasons Women Work 334Work and Family Structures 334Traditional Nuclear Families, Including Stay-at-Home Dads 334The Two-Person Career 335Dual-Earner Families 336Commuter Marriages 336The Impact of Work on Family Relationships 337Marital Power and Decision Making 337Marital Happiness and Satisfaction 338Husbands and the Division of Household Labor 339Child Care 342Inequities in the Workplace: Consequences for Families 345Occupational Distribution 345The Race-Gender Gap in Earnings: Good News and Bad News 346The Union Difference 347Sexual Harassment 348The Economic Well-Being of Families 349Economic Uncertainty: The Widening Income Gap 350Who Are the Poor?